A BIODATA ... to be used TO TRACE A FAMILY TREE
MY VERY OWN PERSONAL FAMILY:THE PEOPLE WHO KNOWS ALL ABOUT ME....
MY MOTHER:
CONCESA URSOS2nd child of Amando Ursos and Juliana Monterolagranddaughter of Itay Iyong and Inay JuanaCIVIC ORGANIZERChurch OrganistEntrepreneur, REDARELEII Boarding HousesBrgy 3, San Francisco Agusan Sur CARAGA
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DANILO URSOS LADERAmy brothergovernment employee
REX URSOS LADERA , my brother & LIZA FLORES LADERADealership, Fire extinguisher Business
LENI L. CHATHAM , my sisterLEE CHATHAMBusinessTexas, USA
IVY L. CINCO , my sisterARON CINCOFood catering servicesCARAGA REGION
CHRISTIAN CYRUS URSOS LADERAmy brother REDARELEII Boarding HousesBrgy 3, San Francisco Agusan Sur CARAGA
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MY CHILDREN:
RERUEL DEO ESPELETA LADERACabadbaran City, CARAGA REGION
ELURRE DEARLY E. LADERACabadbaran City, CARAGA REGION
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MY CLOSEST NEXT OF KIN:
My personal adviserGERMAN Pabatao LADERAmy uncle, BROTHER OF MY FATHERRETIRED ARMY OFFICERCARAGA REGION
ANDREA LADERA BANASIGMy auntie, SISTER OF MY FATHERHUSB: LEON BANASIGformer Vice MayorSan Francisco Agusan del Sur CARAGA
PAZ LADERA ORTIZ Sister of my Father American Canyon, Californiashe took good care of me when i was a childfrom 1 year old to 6 yrs old ( 1965- 1970)
MANUELITO LADERA my uncle, brother of my Father American Canyon, California, usa
FIDA LADERA Sister of my Father American Canyon, California, usa
ANSELMO REVELO my uncle, half brother of my Father SAN FRANCISCO, California, usa
DR. ELIAS REVELO my uncle, half brother of my Father REVELO CLINIC, CLARIN , MISAMIS OCC.
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PEOPLE WHO KNOWS most of ME:
My Legal Adviser:atty. ISIDRO REVELO my uncle, half brother of my Father REGIONAL TRIAL COURT GINGOOG CITY
MAMA FE , QUIRINO LADERAthe persons who cares of my familyBROTHER OF MY GRANDFATHER former mayorMALANGAS, ZAMBOANGA DEL SUR
ABOUT MY OWN FATHER:
PACIANO P. LADERAwell known as " CHIEF" OR " dodong" of san francisco agusan sur
he died on the year 2001a fearless, diplomatic personhe served the government in 30 years
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PEOPLE WHO MOLDED MY ATTITUDES & MY MIND SETTINGDURING MY CHILDHOOD( 1970 - 1974)
THEY LOVE ME LIKE THEIR CHILDBECAUSE IM THE FIRST GRANDSONAND WE LIVE IN ONE HOUSEAT THE OLD HOUSE OF MY GRANDFATHERTHTS WHY IM VERY CLOSE TOURSOS FAMILIES BECAUSE IT IS THEYWHO NURTURED ME...
IN THE FIRST HOUR OF THE MORNING..I HAVE TO GET OUT OF BED AT 4 AM..JUST TO READ A BIBLE...
AND IM THE ONLY CHILD IN THE HOUSETHAT CAN BUY SUKA AT ASINAT A STORE NEARBY...I AM THEIR FAVORITE UNTIL NOW...
ALEX URSOS Accountant Molino Bacoor Cavite my uncle, Brother of my mOTHER He cares for me during my childhood He always give me CHRISTMAS GIFT taught me the value of giving that BEING SELFISH IS NOT GOOD
LILIA URSOS Hongkong my auntie, sister of my mOTHER shared to me the value of Spirituality she molds me to be a good man
RODULFO URSOS managing OSTRICH FARM my uncle, brother of my mOTHER taught me how to be naughty sometimes that life is not perfect
JESSIE URSOS , Business management UNIVERSITY OF THE EAST, MANILA my auntie, sister of my mother taught me how to be STRONG & DISCIPLINED that life is a contant change
EDUARDO BOY URSOS Architect UNIVERSITY OF BOHOL, TAGBILARAN my uncle, brother of my mother taught me how to be an artist that life is NICE TO LIVE WITH ENJOY LIFE AND BE CONTENTED
LUZMINDA URSOS Agromist LGU PROPERIDAD CARAGA REGION my auntie, sister of my mother a regional / national awardee on Corn Production taught me how to be HUMAN TO BE YOURSELF
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MY GRANDPARENTS:
FATHER OF MY FATHER:
GIL TACDER LADERA my grandfather, father of my father Teacher, CLARIN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL Clarin , Misamis Occ
Born in Jagna, Bohol Elementary education, 1930 together with his two cousins:
LEONCIO LADERA, 1930 Elementary teacher of Salay, Misamis Or.
JOSE LADERA , 1930 Teacher of Balingasag, Misamis or.
He was assigned as teacher Sagay Elementary School, Sagay, Camiguin where he met HIS FIRST WIFE
FIRST WIFE: VICENTA PABATAO MY grandmother died during the war in 1942
after the death of grandmother the family including my father went to Clarin Misamis Occ. and he met his second wife:
SECOND WIFE: MAMA SINING REVELO where: they 3 had children
Auntie GAGA, Uncle Lito and paping all of california, USA
AMANDO DUMAPLIN URSOS MY grandfather, father of my mother US ARMY, USAFFE uBAY, bOHOL
He was assigned to Caraga to defend the US airfield at Barobo, surigao del sur
there he met my grandma JULIANA MONTEROLA a teacher teaching Elementary School at Lasang Elementary School, Lasang Davao City
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PEOPLE OUTSIDE THE FAMILYWHO KNOWS ME PERSONALLY :
DANNY ARINO my childhood barkada REGIONAL TRIAL COURT ALBUERA LEYTE
ANTONY TEVES AND JERSON PELIAS my roomates for four years MANRESA DORMITORY CARMEN HILL CAGAYAN DE ORO CITY
NEW WORLD ORDER FAVORS THE CREATIVE PEOPLE:
ATTITUDES THAT WILL PREVAIL IN THE PRESENT TIME:( MEANING If YOU ARE NOT OPENMINDED TO CONSIDER THESE ATTITUDES.. IT MAY BE HARD FOR YOU TO ADJUST ON THE NEW PARADIGM SHIFT ON WORK SET OF VALUES OR IN THE BUSINESS .... ) CURIOUSITY - ALWAYS TRY TO ANSWER THE QUESTIONS WHY? AND WHAT IF ? AND " WHAT HAPPENS ? "
TRY TO SEE PROBLEM AS AN OPPORTUNITY - LEARN TO ACCEPT THAT PROBLEMS ARE ALWAYS THERE AND WE CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT PROBLEM. INSTEAD THINK THAT THE PROBLEM IS ACTUALLY THE SOLUTION TO ANOTHER PROBLEM..
DO YOU REMEMBER WHEN WERE THOSE YEARS WHEN SM MALLS AND JOLIBEE HAD EXPANDED ALMOST THROUGHOUT THE COUNTRY? THOSE WERE THE TIMES WHEN WE CONSIDER THE PHILIPPINES WAS ALMOST IN A CIVIL WAR AND IN ECONOMIC CRISIS? YET YOU WERE WONDERING WHY PEOPLE SWARMED TO THOSE MALLS IN THOSE CHAOTIC TIMES AND SPENDING A LOT INSIDE THE MALLS?
FACE THE CHALLENGE - ANSWER THE QUESTION " HOW CAN I OVERCOME THIS ? " , HOW CAN I SOLVE THIS? WHATS BEYOND ?
CONSTRUCTIVE DISCONTENT - ACCEPT SOME LIMITS BUT LEARN TO DISCOVER SOMETHING THAT MOTIVATES YOU TO REBOUND, READJUST, REASSEMBLE, RECONSTRUCT TO FIND A NEW WAY, A NEW THING A NEW KIND OF SET UP THAT MAYBE BETTER THAN WHAT WAS LOST..
BE POSITIVE !!!
SUSPENDING JUDGEMENT - DONT RUSH TO A DECISION... LET THE NATURAL PROCESS TAKES OVER AND OBSERVE HOW IT GOES..THEN DECIDE IN A RIGHT TIME
PERSERVERANCE - WAIT !!! IF YOU KNOW THAT WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS RIGHT... STICK TO IT AND YOU WILL WIN..
PRACTICAL - REVISE YOUR STRATEGY TO WHAT IS APPLICABLE...
===========================MY FAVORABLE ATTITUDES FOR ME..
being FORTHRIGHT- meaning directly frank without hesitation. i dont have baggage .. i can sleep well and i maintain feeling of happiness within me.. i try to avoid unfinished business in my heart and in my mind...
I LIVE WITH SIMPLICITY, LIVE BY SIMPLE RULES:
FIRST IS GIGO - GARBAGE IN GARBAGE OUTSECOND IS "COMPLETE STUFF WORK"THIRD - BRING ONLY YOURSELF, LEAVE THOSE GARBAGE BEHIND FOURTH - ALWAYS PREPARE A SPACE AND TIME FOR YOU FIFTH - ALWAYS GO BACK TO WHERE YOU BELONG
EMOTIONAL - full of images; song-like expression. i can express myself. thats why most people misterpret me to be alone and sad but actually im not... IF YOU CAN ONLY LOOK INSIDE OF ME.. im A happy clean soul .. i dont keep problems ..i ALWAYS TRY to express myself. maybe not immediately but i will in a right time
OBJECTIVE- meaning unbiased view- able to leave personal judgments aside. i dont keep hatred to anybody... i will accept if you deserve something for you..not for me... i can accept that happily. but i will try to defend mine if its really for me..
OPTIMISTIC - meaning hopeful, cheerful , i dont entertain problem within myself. my only problem i have in my life is how can i help other people ? how can i maintain my job clean without messy personal interests.. i dont need money.. for what? i live alone and my income is enough for me... my bros and sis have their lives..my mother had her own more than mine..
PRODUCTIVE - I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING GOOD
POLITE - "obedient in order to gain something" because i live to help other people not only for myself.. i am not happy being selfish
REVERENT - MEANING treating a ANYBODY OR THING with honor and respect, I WAS TAUGHT BY MY PARENTS TO BE LIKE THAT
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MY UNFAVORABLE ATTITUDES...OTHER PEOPLE WONT LIKE ME..
CYNICAL - MEANING "questions the basic sincerity and goodness of people" , I HAVE THE HABIT OF ASKING QUESTION TWICE OR MORE.. MAYBE I WAS TRAINED BY MY WORK TO VERIFY BECAUSE WHAT I AM DOING IS ABOUT MONEY.. ONE FALSE MOVE..ITS A LOSS BUT OTHER PEOPLE WILL BE ANNOYED BY ME IM SURE
CONDESCENSION - "a feeling of superiority, " FEELING " OK ? " BUT I CANNOT LIVE FOREVER TO BE NEGATIVE... WHATEVER.. LIFE IS GOOD ... ANG DATING CONCEITED .. BUT ACTUALLY NOT..
CALLOUS - MEANING " MANHID !! "unfeeling, insensitive to feelings of others , maybe because i cant entertain problems through emotion. i deal problems rationally.. kind of HEART IS FOR LOVE WHILE MIND IS FOR THE PROBLEMS. THERE IS NO DEALING BETWEEN THE HEART AND THE PROBLEM.... AS I SEE IT
CONTEMPLATIVE - MEANING "studying, thinking, reflecting on an issue" THAT MAKES ME MISTERPRETED BY OTHER PEOPLE TO BE A LONER... BECAUSE I ALWAYS THINK HOW TO SOLVE AN ISSUE TO BE POSITIVE
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Caraga was named after the historic Caraga: land mass covering Northeastern seaboard of island of Mindanao inhabited by the "KALAGAN" . "Kalag" meaning soul or people and "An" meaning land.
kALAGANS WERE SOON MISPRONOUNCED BY THE SPANIARDS INTO CARAGANS OR CARAGA OR CARAG, Caraga tribe of sri-vishayan origin. as chronicled by Antonio Pigafetta located between Butuan or Benaiam .
The ancient District of Caraga, which was established in 1609 comprised all of Surigao del Norte, Surigao del Sur, the Northern part of Davao Oriental and Eastern Misamis Oriental.
++++++++++++++++++++++++It doesn’t interest mewhat you do for a living.I want to knowwhat makes you happyand if you dare to dreamof meeting your heart’s longing.
It doesn’t interest mehow far you are.I want to knowif you will risklooking like a foolfor lovefor your dreamfor the adventure of being alive.
It doesn’t interest me
about the time of your sunsetssquaring your moon...I want to knowif you have touchedthe centre of your own heartif you have been openedthe secret of life and found its meaning
It doesn’t interest methe fears of the unknownI want to knowif you can sit with memine or your ownwithout moving to hide itor fade it or fix itif truelove really exist in our time
It doesn’t interest methe uncertainty of the futurebecause our time have had enough to live in certaintyI want to knowif you can be me with joymine or your ownif you can dance with wildnessand let the ecstasy fill youto the tips of your fingers and toeswithout cautioning usto be carefulto be realisticto remember the limitationsof being human.
It doesn’t interest meif the story you is true.I want to know if you canfathom of what i knowyours and mineand still stand at the edge of the timeand shout to the silver of the full moon,“Yes.”
It doesn’t interest meto know where you liveor how much money you have.I want to know if you can get upafter the night of grief and despairweary and bruised to the boneand do what needs to be doneto feel whats real and what is not
It doesn’t interest mewho you knowor how you came to be here.I want to know if you will standin the centre of the firewith meand not shrink back.
It doesn’t interest mewhere or what or with whomyou have studied.I want to knowwhat sustains youfrom the insidewhen all else falls away.
I want to knowif if im part of your mind and heartthe company to keeptimes like these in some empty moments.
rey u ladera sept 16 2010++++++++++++++++++++++++I remember so wellThe day that you came into my lifeYou asked for my nameYou had the most beautiful smile
My life started to changeI'd wake up each day feeling alrightWith you right by my sideMakes me feel things will work out just fine
How did you knowI needed someone like you in my lifeThat there's an empty space in my heartYou came at the right time in my life
I'll never forgetHow you brought the sun to shine in my lifeAnd took all the worries and fears that I hadI guess what I'm really trying to sayIt's not everyday that someone like you comes my wayNo words can express how much I love you
MY KIND OF HIDEOUT:MY FIRST DORM : MANRESA DORMS DORM 2 ROOM 5 (1981-1985)MY SECOND DORM : YMCA DORMS UPLB CAMPUS ROOM 2 ( 1986-1988 )MY THIRD DORM : VENEES HOTEL DAVAO CITY ( JULY - OCT 1991)MY FOURTH DORM : CIUDAD CHRISTIA RESORT.san mateo RIZAL , MM ( JULY - DEC 1994)
IMPORTANT MOMENTS OF TIME THAT I ALWAYS REMEMBER :
* FEB 21, 1964 , PIECES, YEAR OF THE DRAGON = SI REYNALDO NATAWO ANANG ADLAWA !!!
* JUNE 29, 1994 - " CAN YOU FEEL THE LOVE TONIGHT - LION KING" = BIRTH OF RERUEL DEO LADERA, MY SON SIMBA WAS THE LION KING WHEN DEO WAS BORN
* JAN 19, 1997 - " A WHOLE NEW WORLD" BY ALADIN = ELURRE DEARLY LADERA MY DAUGHTER WAS BORN * DEC 26, 1984 = I RECEIVED JC MY PERSONAL LORD AND SAVIOR INITIATED BY PSALMS XAVIER UNIVERSITY CHAPTER * SUMMER OF 1980 - = THE FIRST TIME i have a secret
* FEB 24, 1986 - THE DAY I JOIN THE "CAUSE FOR A CHANGE" ONLY FEW OF US LEFT AT UPLB CAMPUS. IN THE MORNING WE HAVE DECIDED TO JOIN OUR FRIENDS AT EDSA SO WE RIDE THE JEEP HIRED BY OUR FRIENDS SO WE CAN REACH CAMP CRAME BUT WE CANT PROCEED..A BARRICADE WAS ESTABLISHED ALONG EDSA SO WE OUR GROUP DECIDED TO STAY AND HOLD MAKATI AND WE DID LIKE A PICNIC OUT THERE WAITING FOR ANY DEVELOPMENTS TO HAPPEN UNTIL WE KNEW MARCOS WAS OUT...
HONESTLY I WAS AFRAID.. BUT THE SPIRIT OF FATALISM ENVELOPED THE HEARTS AND THE MIND OF US... " ANG TAKOT AY NASA ISIP LAMANG" SO I DECIDE... I CAN OFFER MY LIFE IF THIS IS THE ONLY WAY TO FIND PEACE FOR EVERYONE
* DEC 26 1988 - MY FIRST DAY AS EMPLOYEE OF THE BANK = IT WAS EXCITING .. I DISCOVERED A NEW KIND OF DESTINY
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UNFORGETABLE EXPERIENCE ...
LEADER OF THE GANG... MY PARENTS HAVE A STORE IN THE PORT OF MALANGAS, ALL THE CHILDREN AROUND ME THOUGHT IM THE LORD..THEY FOLLOW ME EVERYWHERE I GO... THERE ARE MANY CANDIES I BRING EVERYTIME IM OUT FROM THE STORE... ( 1968 - 1970 )
MY FIRST BOXING... SAN FRANCISCO ELEM SCHOOL TEODORO BUSLON AND DANNY SUNER PUT A MUD IN MY WHITE SHOES... I KNOW MY MOTHER WILL HANG ME AT THE WALL OUT OF THIS.. SO WE SETTLE IT IN A PAIR OF GLOVES USED BY MANNY PACQUIAO... SUNGGO KO!!!! BUKLAN SI TEDDY HE HE HE TEODORO BUSLON BECAME MY BEST FRIEND UNTIL WE GOT FINISHED IN HIGH SCHOOL...
MY FIRST SHOT OF TANDUAY DURING OUR CLASS AT URIOS HIGH.. ME AND THE BIG GUYS WERE TELLING STORY OF LIES , ME, DANNY SUNER, BONG MAGALONA, DANNY ARINO, NESTOR APATAN, EDMANLOR CABANOS, EDWIN DANDAN , EDDIE CABANBAN, FERNANDO DE LOS SANTOS...AND ETC.. SUBJECT MATTER TO DISCUSS WAS TOO HARD TO COMMENT... I THINK IT WAS ECONOMICS... SO SILENT NOBODY WANTS TO TALK. SUDDENLY A GLASS OF GOLD WAS HANDED.. THE BIG GUYS HANDED TO ME AND FOR THE SMALL GUYS IN FRONT OF ME CAN DRINK A SHOT.. SUDDENLY THE ROOM WERE IN A HOT DISCUSSION ..ALL THE GUYS TALK ABOUT ECONOMICS.. AFTER A SHOT I STAND AND BEGAN TO TALK...I SAID " ACCORDING TO THE BOOK "... AND THE LAUGHTER GOES I DONT KNOW WHY THEY LAUGH....
ONE SUNDAY AFTERNOON AT THE MANRESA DORM... ME AND MY ROOMATES HAVE NO MONEY SO WE CANNOT GO DOWN THE CITY TO WATCH JAMES BOND MOVIE... " OCTOPUSSY: SO..WE JUST SIT THERE AND SING EDGAR TALADUA WAS THERE TO PLAY THE GUITAR TO THE TUNE OF " A HORSE WITH NO NAME" AND ALONE AGAIN NATURALLY.. ME, ANTHONY TEVES of dipolog, "IHO" JERSON PELIAS of socrro island , AND SOME GUYS IN ROOM 4 WITH LEO MAQUILING READING THEIR PLAYBOY MAGAZINE IF NOT THEIR HOMEWORK... WENT WITH US TO PLAY BASKETBALL AN HOUR OF RUNNING WITHOUT SHOOTING THE BALL AT THE RING WAS TOO EXHAUSTING..SO WE WENT TO THE KITCHEN BUT THERES NOBODY OUT THERE... GUTOM NA KAAYO !!!! HMNNNN WELL THE FREEZER WAS LEFT OPEN.. SOMEBODY BROUGHT THE HOTDOGS AND WE COOK IT BELOW THE BASKETBALL COURT... MY GOODNESS !!!!AN AFTERNOON WITHOUT JAMES BOND CAN CREATE CRIME...
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SIGNS WHEN I LIKE A PERSON....
FIRST SIGN: I WANT TO TALK TO HER
SECOND SIGN : I VOLUNTEER TO DO DIRTY WORKS FOR HER
THIRD SIGN: I ASK HER WHATS IN HER MIND I TRY TO GAIN HER ATTENTION TO HELP ME ON LITTLE THINGS
FOURTH SIGN: I AM PROUD TO BE NEAR TO HER I CAN HOLD HER HAND IN PUBLIC
FIFTH SIGN : USUALLY A GIFT IS LATELY GIVEN IT IS CHOSEN THE BEST I CAN USUALLY IT GIVES ME HEADACHE WHATS THE BEST FOR HER ?
SIXTH SIGN : I INTRODUCE HER TO MY FAMILY
SEVENTH SIGN : I WANT HER TO DRINK OR EAT WITH ME WITH MY INNER CIRCLE ( FRIENDS OR NEXT OF KIN)
EIGHT SIGN: THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL SHE WILL BECOME A PART OF MY LIFE
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